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Feb 17, 2009

Am I ever going to be a mother?????

I'm so sick of all the delays that I have to endure with this process. It just seems when you make some head way you are hit with another hurtle. I just wish that sometimes you could deal with the agency yourself and not have your province involved till the end. I know that it would make our lives much easier. I don't really understand how someone could use their powers to hold up your adoption on a dime. It makes me wonder if this is the path we should be taking to have the family we want.

4 comments:

Cath said...

Aww Kelly, I'm sorry for whatever is happening. I don't know what you guys are going through and wish that everything would just hurry up already for you. We often felt the same way about the agency and the provincial people. Even now its like, "Okay, leave us alone already. How can you expect us to get on with life if you keep changing rules and butting in! Grr..." If you ever need to talk or vent, you can always call. (I will send you my number over email.) I hope you are both well!

Catherine

Anonymous said...

Kelly,
I don't know what kind of problems they are giving you but hang in there. We've taken a lot of crap from our province as well. I think they just do it to see how hard you will fight for your children and how much crap you will put up with. As frustrating as it is fight through it, it's well worth it once it all over.

Sherri

Carolyn said...

Hey there- I know this is all really crappy but I know that this is going to happen (even if getting there almost kills us!!!) Don't let this ruin your dream- you are just going to have to push to get there. I know that is not fair and that you are tired of road blocks. Call anytime- I am hear to listen to you vent!

Carolyn

Jill, Trevor, Kohl, Aliah said...

Kelly,

you WILL be a Mom and a GREAT one. This path is tough, that's for sure but you can do this and we are all here for you!

Jill

 

Our Timeline

First Adoption

Started the process in Jan/11
Home study approval Mar/11
DTC May 16. 2011
LID June 1, 2011
Referral July 26, 2011
Sent letter of Intent July 28, 2011
PA Aug 4 , 2011
LOA 119 Days....Nov 28, 2011
TA Dec 20, 2011
January we're Parents!

Second Adoption

Started Process Feb/13
Provincial Approval April 26/13

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