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Mar 29, 2009

Nothing new...

We are still waiting for a referral and have only heard that siblings are getting harder and harder to get unless we up the ages again. We are still going to stick it out but think that either way this might be the only time we do this. It's a rollercoaster ride that I'm not sure I would ever want to do again. I know once I have a child in my arms I might think differently. But until then I might just say this will be it.

7 comments:

Carolyn said...

HI Kelly- I know that it can be hard to imagine going through this again but when I focus on the end result I know that I will be able to do it again. I know that whatever you decide will be what is right for you.


Carolyn

Deanna said...

I hope your wait is shorter then you think...I can't wait for the day that you announce that you got your referral.

Deanna

Chris, Tammy and the gang! said...

HI Kelly,
I do understand the emotional turmoil and the exhaustion adoption brings on. There will come a time when all this is forgotten but I know that's hard to imagine right now!!! Try to get as much support from all of us who have been there and are going through it as well.

Take care!

Tammy

Sarah Rodgerson said...

Thinking of you and looking forward to the day you announce your referral. Eventually you will KNOW if you are meant to go through this once, twice or seven times!!

Sarah

Jill, Trevor, Kohl, Aliah said...

Hey Kel

This is one hard process, but your family is out there. Thinking of you and can't wait for the day we are "CHEERS" ing" to your referral.

Take care

Jill

Cath said...

Thanks Kelly!:) The comment you left on my blog made me want to cry because I know you understand. Its so difficult and frustrating to deal with people who think they know better or whatever you want to call it. I agree with you and I will stick to my guns...Its hard thinking I might have to walk away from certian people because of it though. The support means more than you know.
I hope you hear something soon too, I keep checking up on you both for more news!
Catherine

Ramona said...

HI. I just found your blog and wanted to say that I hear you on the wait... Are you with CAFAC or Imagine? We're waiting for sibs under 48 months and are seeing the 18 month mark creeping up in front of us... I see Carolyn is a reader of your blog and we have been ol'wiating partners until she got her exciting news finally.

Ramona
you can email me if you need another blog to read... willowdalewhimsy @yahoo .ca

 

Our Timeline

First Adoption

Started the process in Jan/11
Home study approval Mar/11
DTC May 16. 2011
LID June 1, 2011
Referral July 26, 2011
Sent letter of Intent July 28, 2011
PA Aug 4 , 2011
LOA 119 Days....Nov 28, 2011
TA Dec 20, 2011
January we're Parents!

Second Adoption

Started Process Feb/13
Provincial Approval April 26/13

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